Thank you everybody for the support! If I come up with the solution, I’ll let you all know…

BTW, AAAA, I am a woman. Don’t worry lotsa people assume me to be a guy. Sometimes I like to think of myself as a dashing young man—depending on what clothes I wear. I have enough gender neutral features that lotsa people get confused…maybe the ambivalence I have concerning my gender comes out… And, you are right, I carry a wallet, not a purse.