Hello,
I'm overall new here, have been here for about 3 weeks.
I mostly love helping people with my insight.
I advice and show, more than I tell to do.
I made a post recently which was meant to help someone.
But it seems my insight was innocent since I had limited knowledge on the complexity of the subject in question by OP. This doesn't surprise me, as I am open to obtaining more knowledge and insight, and I know I there are many things I have not experienced or heard of.
But my problem is the way people treat me when I'm "wrong" (I have mixed feelings about using terms of "right and wrong" when it comes to advising).
I ended up being 3rd person'ed by the ones who expressed disagreement with what I said.
I know that there is always more to learn and hear from people, but I tend to feel cast off when I'm 3rd person'ed in front of my face.
I also tend to feel offended when said I'm wrong in 2nd person, but the 3rd person way is worse for me.
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