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Originally Posted by rainbow8
Maybe it doesn't matter, but I'd like to know where it came from. I'm not sure if I can help my child parts. I don't know what you mean about shutting out the child sense of me. I often feel like a child.
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Personally, I think it matters to know where it came from too. I agree this may not always be possible but not exploring why I am the way I am would feel like a denial of the past and sort of papering over the cracks without allowing myself to fully process my past. But that's just me.
I took it that what Luce means is maybe you shut out the needs of your child part, perhaps to deny yourself the pain? I don't know, maybe I'm wrong.
Perhaps the way forward is to explore what that part of you wanted/needed and how not getting that made you feel, and how it makes you feel now.