Oh...I know this all too well. I am just a pos who gets used then thrown away as well....but I do believe that maybe these guys truly need us and are messed up just like we are and since we understand and are good hearted people, we get taken advantage of....I am in the same situation now...somewhat...someone I really care for and want to help is turning his back on me...it really hurts and I don’t know what to do....so I hope you know that by helping someone in need is a good deed and she seems messed up and confused and needs someone strong to help her along the way...even if she seems aloof right now...It seems like the ex is a cancer in her life and she only takes it because he has custody of thier child...hope this helps....