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Originally Posted by Elio
I see lots of positives from these. I think you will do well with someone trained in body work and I think it is great that she already recognized that you will have an early attachment to her. I bet diagramming your and her attachment styles helped the intellectual side of you understand her better and how your work together might look like. In fact, simply recognizing that her attachment style plays into the relationship is a big plus in my book.
I wish you the best Mona.
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Thank you Elio,
Yes I really liked that she explained a lot of things and didn't just assume anything. She checks a lot with me, is that right for you, or is that how it was for you? She also acknowledged that most therapists have an insecure attachment and they are not able to allow their clients to attach to them or to even be able to acknowledge that they mean something to their clients! She asked me where about in my body I felt my attachment to old t and I told her my heart. She said no wonder you feel it so strongly there because your heart has been broken by her. This was very validating for me to hear.
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Originally Posted by Out There
Awesome. Complex trauma is a difficult one so sounds good she is trained in bodywork , I feel it needs a combination of things as well as talk therapy. I'm so pleased for you Mona and I hope this works out for you.  |
Thank you outthere
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Originally Posted by granite1
that must have been such a hard move to make .im glad you did and hope all works out for you
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Thank you Granite