Here's the update on that one: my child was self-harming in Sept/Oct/Nov--there are now eight or ten razor marks on both thighs. Did this even though she was going to a therapist. So it doesnt seem like the therapy helped. Discovered while on vacation in Florida--scars visible with shorts. My wife believes in tough love but this evening she was screaming at the child and threatening to have her locked up in a psych ward while throwing books at her --i dont beieve that is appropriate, or even effective.