Yes, I too remember hurtful remarks from my father very often. I say how I feel to him sometimes, but he keeps saying that he is my father as if this gives him a pass!! I don't really know how to handle my emotions regarding all of this. I sometimes talk to myself and create scenarios arguing with him about all of this, and I get angry going through them. It makes me crazy!! To him it's just a remark, but to a me everything negative he did or said has hugely affected my personality and self-esteem!!