There is one guy in particular now that bothers me and I will go to the manager but first I just have to tell him that I do not appreciate the way he speaks to me myself, because what's he's doing now is pretty subtle and I don't want to be too quick on this. I know many women even appreciate this kind of behaviour but I don't (for example, when the bodyguard was commenting on my eyes during break and showing openly his attraction, I raised my voice then, maybe not too good, but it worked).

The thing with the bothersome guy is: He started working there like two weeks ago, I met him at the bus stop, was in a good mood, told him about the job. He was way too sweet, his voice, constantly smiling, my paranoid soul just screamed inside. So, I talked to him for like two minutes and then, on the bus, he proposed me his coffee. I said no, thanks, because I don't drink coffee in the morning and will have some in the afternoon: "Oh, so you gonna go and pay for it?" "I can afford a cup of coffee, but it's free anyway". Then, on the way back, he asked me my name and kissed my hand which is rather old fashioned here. I had my working clothes on me and he started criticizing and commenting on how I forgot to change: "I didn't. I don't change my clothes after work". I found it really annoying that he's giving me lectures and trying to teach me, he sounded overly dominant. For the goodbye, he said "Oh, so see you tomorrow" and used my name in a diminutive form. Then, each time he was at work on my shift (he works in a different section) he would just, for example, come from behind me and be like "Oh, so you're here! Look! I found you" and kept calling me, like, with a pet name of some kind. At the beginning he would also rush to open me the door, even if he was far, far away and walked behind me. Now, every time he sees me, he's using his baby-talk and just be like "Abbieeeeee!" (fake name) "Here you are!" or bothers me just to ask me if my hair wasn't longer and what have I done to them. Mostly I just ignore him and just give up on him because I don't have time for this stuff, I'm at work. Also, whenever he comes to the bus stop, he says like "Hello" to everyone but has to mention me separately, using this annyoing baby talk of his. His behaviour is not as obvious as, for example, a bodyguard commenting on my eyes and how sexy are they (I just raised my voice at him and the guy standing next to him just told him something too) but it's far more annoying, like, what the hell is he about.