Have you ever experience being so confident you feel like you're the leader of the room, and that every joke you make is funny and that you're great in every way? And suddenly those feeling vanish and you feel small, insecure, timid, and very uncomfortable at some particular situation?

I do, a lot. And it's hard to maintain that confidence, I usually get uncomfortable around gossiper girls (i'm a girl too btw) not sure because I had a trauma back then or something, but it really effects my everyday life. I get scared being in an all girl environment, it makes me that uncomfortable to the point where my real personality just can't seem to show (i'm usually loud, funny, and fun to be with, but when I'm insecure I become distant, cold, and rude, even though I don't really want to be that way)

Is there any way to NOT be like that? it has been killing me inside for years If you have any tip or any words to say, maybe any experience, please tell me