It seems to be that it's hard to find a great T. She means well but so how we always come across these times wher she sways in a direction where we are all wondering what her angle is. The boys really like her and she's more professional than my T was. They had a previous T who was ok and then started yelling at me and demanding me to Make changes and not in their benefit. He meant well as well but he was acting awkward towards the end and my boys noticed it. They hated going to him. The switching of therapists is taxing and I think especially for kids as well. If she could just think a little more and understand what her clients are going through then perhaps that would be so much more helpful. She listens to 50% of what I say and believes perhaps 25%. Anything my ex says is the golden rule and she has no idea that he misleads her every time. I see their needs and know their needs and I'm there. I tell her and it goes over her head. Recently my 15 year old asked my friend in front of me if he could have her number. We have similar parenting styles and she explains herself better than his therapist. She formed her own boundaries and said that he could reach her at anytime through my phone. I'm think he has needs to be addressed and his theorist doesn't see this. I'm a witness but my word means nothing because she thinks I have some other motive and I don't.