It isn't right the counselor did that. If I were you, I'd report him to your state medical board. To right the wrong he did to you and to stop him from hurting others. As far as your step parent, that is not right either. I wish there was something to say to make it better, but sadly there isn't. If your papa bear is good to you, look to him. Having someone, is a rare gift. It has always been a dream of mine to matter to someone, but I don't think I'll have it. So, perhaps if you open more to him, it may make you feel better.