Okay, obviously I was having a bad afternoon. I'm in a lighter mood this evening, especially happy that my wife didnt start a fight with younger daughter and didnt smash anything (well, apart from one door on a kitchen cabinet). And I've been looking at apartments for rent. Younger daughter confirms yet again she wants out (well, yeah, the tension in this place since the -summer was terrible, and I'm sure she's tired of getting slapped around by Mom). So Im at least thinking I should be able to escape soon.