I also have fantasies of rough and gentle. Skwisgaar and Nathan are into rough but Toki is into gentle and they have their own rendezvous together and Toki is upset he can't be "brutal" like the other two so they came up with a compromise that they'll teach him how to be brutal if he teaches them how to be gentle. It's a fun fantasy I really enjoy because I myself go back and forth between wanting rough and gentle.