I didn't read the other posts.... but will give you my opinion for what it is worth...

My friend.. of many...many years.. lied to me... and she treated me very poorly..for a couple of years...

I was shocked... never dreamed that she had been lying to me about alot of things... that really were important.. very important... and I have no words to decrible the slice of pain that went thru my heart... no words..

After the shock.. after the anger.. came a decision... did I want this person in my life... would I ever trust this person again..

I decided... yes I did want this person in my life... but.. not in the old way..

So... she and I had a series of conversations... yepper.. not just one... a series....

letting her know.. how betrayed I felt.. number one.. and number two.. that I understood her way of "dealing with things" but that her way would have to improve... when dealing between the two of us... that I did indeed understand that she had "problems".... as I do have "problems"... but that the communication and the behaovior ... was going to have to improve..

Then over the course of the next 2 years... it was.. more conversations... as things veered... off the "path"...

and it has been worth it for me.. and for her... and no ...things will never be "perfect"... but.. it is still a good friendship..

so... you can decided to contact her... and talk to her.. or ignore the card completely... or really anything..

However... in my opinion.. unless you actually ask her.. and talk to her... you will never know her true intent...

respectively... submmitted.. as my opinion.. only...