Of course nothing will help as long as that's what you keep telling yourself even though it's total b.s.

Anything learned can be unlearned.Where there's a will there's a way.I am not even sure you really want things to change,otherwise you would at least try instead of giving excuse after excuse.Maybe you thrive on chaos and drama subconsciously or something,I don't know.

I tried,and everyone else here has tried too.Maybe it's time you try.