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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am sorry and hope you feel better.
Is he in general unsupportive? Or just about health? Sometimes people minimize others symptoms thinking that it eases their worries. Usually not the case.
Is crisis with his daughter something serious that makes him preoccupied? My mom is battling cancer and my daughter just lost her husband in horrible circumstances and she is struggling. At this point I have no energy to worry about too many other things. Is that the case? Is he too worried about something else?
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Thank you Divine. Yes he
has been very supportive in the past. This issue with his daughter is quite serious - she is hospitalized with an unknown brain problem. They've done a biospy and now they are checking for cancer. So yes, he is pre-occupied. I have done my best despite what I am going through to be supportive - especially a good listener. I have not expected all his attention (that would be horrible of me) but I
do expect that when I first talked about the seriousness of my own health and the likelihood of surgery that it would have gotten his attention.