I've always wondered why some people seem to get annoyed when I decline help from them. If I really needed help, then I would ask or allow someone to help me but if I don't need help, then I feel like it should be respected. Most people don't care but I've had some people say I should be more accepting of help from others after I have politely turned down assistance from others, since it wasn't needed.

It is not that do don't like it when people help, it is just that I don't like it when people help when I clearly don't need any, especially if I told them so. Any reasons on this? I've had people ask if I am afraid to ask for help. It is like, no, I just simply don't alway need help amd will only ask or accept help when needed. Anyone understand why this happens? Just kind of confusing and annoying. I know whether I need help or not and if I need it, then I will ask or accept help.