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Jan 10, 2017, 06:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Mapper
Partially not leaving because it's just overwhelming to me to start over and go through the whole divorce thing and easier to just stay with the status quo. Also, because I would not want to be around him if I even remotely hinted at it because he would find a way to shift all the blame on me and make me feel horrible and anything I'd say would be turned against me.
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You don't seem to understand though that the temporary discomfort of dealing with a divorce and his bad attitude would be followed by the permanent breath of fresh air of never having to deal with him again. I find it hard to believe that you are willing to put very temporary calm and quiet (that you don't have anyways) over being happy with your life.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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