Thank you all, I think it's a really good choice for me because if I had of stayed with ex t I would have gone mad. At times I felt that she was trying to make me go mad.
I believe my new t is very genuine. She is so lovely and so the opposite of ex t that that has to be good right? I still have an appointment with ex t on Thursday morning, i keep changing my mind about going and telling her what I think about her or not going and never explaining anything to her. I don't think I could do that after three years together. She deserves a proper ending.