hi crisapple
i was worried at first too but like phoneix, my son is always telling me how he loves us etc. and he too is happy as well. i think they are just both very sensitive boys and obvioulsy when they get in trouble or don't like what they hear, their first instinct is to react. my son does this at school too. i just have to remind him from time to time to walk away or just find ways to calm himself down.