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Originally Posted by Só leigheas
Has your dad ever spoken to your mom about her behavior; if he's aware of it?
First, I want to point out that nothing you described here can/should ever be described as weakness. Crying, cutting...neither of those are weaknesses, they're coping mechanisms. It's really no wonder why you have to utilize them, dealing with a "mom" like that. My dad would call me a liar and things when I'd confront him about what he did, after some time I just felt like I was crazy and imagining everything was worse than what it was; I'm still dealing with this, though I'm coming out of it slowly. Don't let that happen here. Your mom, she sounds like she's not currently fit to be a parent. Is there any way you could talk to a school counselor about this, maybe? Just so you can speak to some adult about these things. I had to do this when I was still dealing with my dad because I'd get it real bad if I spoke to anyone else.
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My dad knows whats happening and ive talked to him about it before. But i think hes kind of tired of it. He loves my mom obviously since they married. I dont want to drag him into this anymore. And i dont want to hurt him by turning him against my mom. And to finally answer your question i dont know if he has. Im sure hes brought something along the lines up. Nothing has changed though.
Im homeschooled so no school counselor. And like i said i dont really want to bring this up to anybody because I'll seem like a complainer... My mom also mockingly says "you think your such a poor abused child." Which means im not going to go to anybody and complain about her.
Also my mom is fit to being a parent because she has 4 biological kids who she treats differently than me and my two blood brothers (one of whom has been gone since 2013) and i have no contact with because of the destroyed relationship between her and him
Anyways i appreciate your help So leigheas. Thank you
