Your mother sounds almost exactly like my mother. My T believes my mother is a narcissist. Maybe try looking that up, but only if you are sure she can't see the internet search history.

Also, look up the term "gaslight" or "gaslighting". This term is basically what she is doing when you know she said/did something, but she denies it and calls you the liar.

One more note... in the cycle of abuse (even mental or emotional, not just physical), the person (your mother) will be doing their thing, calling you a liar, yelling, snooping, etc, and then for a while, everything is good. They become nice, buy you things they know you like, compliment you, offer to take you places... eventually it will end up back in the yelling and snooping and calling you a liar again. This is the cycle of abuse. This is how abusers get their "victim" (I hate that word) to stay or maintain hope.

If you ever need to talk or chat, please come on here, pm me or anyone... don't just keep you're feelings and thoughts inside, that will only make things worse in the long run.

Chaos