I am an early 20's male. Have had sex with about 9 women in my life and am with a girlfriend now of 1.5 years. Lately, and for a while now, I feel like I have little to no interest in having sex. It used to be that I would not have so much interest in sex but would still find some interest in masturbation, but now I don't even want to do that much anymore. Its like I am trying to get away from sex as much as possible, I dont like to talk about it or joke about it or even think about it.

At the present moment, the sex I do have is nothing compared to what I can remember from earlier in this relationship and with previous women. I guess I don't really feel into it, specifically emotionally. And this is a good point to make, emotionally I am much less involved than sexually. There will be times when I get aroused physically but still have no interest in doing anything, and will try to hide my arousal in the hopes that I won't have to do anything.

I don't consider myself anything but heterosexual but homosexual porn usually gets me more aroused and I find a great deal of anxiety surrounding that entire subject of being gay.

My girlfriend has said that I am stressed and notes that I have been sleeping a lot and messing up in school somewhat. I am probably depressed.

Sex can feel great for me or it can feel like nothing with only a blip on the radar at ejaculation. Compared to my partner, who seems to enjoy sex a lot, I don't really think I do. It is a task not a pleasure. Sometimes I feel like I would be better off just not having sex at all. It is a big source of anxiety for me.