But Skies, what does he tell you, when you bluntly ask him why does he do that? And ask as long as his answer makes sense to you. A sensible answer would be the kind of answer for which you would somehow feel and be convinced that he is doing it with your best interests in mind in long-term, even if you don't like it in short-term. But when his answer leaves you with the feeling of being uncontained then I would say that ask him to clarify again.

I think there could be two possible outcomes. Either his answer starts to make sense for you and then you don't feel as abandoned and your work can continue. Or you become more and more convinced that he's doing it for himself and not for your good and then I'm not sure it would be worth continuing with him. In either case it would bring more clarity into your relationship because I'm assuming that you wouldn't want to trust your heeling to someone's hands who is not actually able to think what is good for you.