Not in the books I've read, it seems we have read different books... and defiantly not what my t has said. My t could care less about what I looked like if I was happy with what I looked like or how old I am.

I would have to say something about "potential for change", I would agree that there is something about this.. my take is not so much potential but willingness to try, willingness to stay open.

Skies, I am sorry you are having a rough day and I wish I could find the words that would help. In the short period of time that I have been here, I have seen you write some lovely posts providing great amount of support for others here. I really wished I could provide you that support today. I can tell by the other posts, that I am not alone in this wish.