hi darocka. Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry your T is falling asleep.

With mine, he would do that whenever I started telling him stories so I did not have to deal with hurtful stuff. I finally figured that out years later.

I figured that mine did not have a serious sleep apnea problem, but may be giving me a subtle clue to move on to a subject that will do more for me. When my partner goes on a complaining rant I just want to tune them out.

I guess people feel that way when I complain too.