Seriously, i can HEAR that i am only talking to myself, that he may as well not be there. I only expect him to meet me halfway. If im only giving 10 percent, i disagree that he has to make up the missing 40 percent. Not after ten years, and im aware of it happening, and there is something i can do about it?

I said ENGAGE him, not entertain him. If i dont need him, what am i doing there?