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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
Well that she is an anxious ambivalent and I am avoidant so sometimes she may appear clingy or needy and that I may get frightened of this and pull away. That sounds simplistic but as she was describing it it made perfect sense.
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That's really awesome. The more knowledge, the more power. This also allows you to adjust your expectations accordingly, as well as have empathy and understanding for her struggles that may arise.
(Also wondering if this is the dynamic with me and my therapist as I am anxious ambivalent, mostly, with him. I wonder if he is more avoidant)