Wow, Mona, that was so brave and just so many levels of flippin' awesome!

You've given (old) T endless opportunities to "fix this" and she didn't listen or show willingness to engage with your concerns, needs, feelings, questions. There is pushing and then there is whatever the heck she was doing - so much of what she said to you just seemed cruel and un-therapeutic.

New T sounds like a better fit for you and i hope the two of you do great work together.