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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
And he would move on and find another patsy to support him. And Mapper's problem is solved, easy peasy. Simple solution: stop the income.
If it were me, I'd move back to my parent's house, open a bank account with only my name, and let the bum divorce me rather than put up with this crap.
Plus, once you are divorced, you will have to still give him financial support because that's what you have been doing while married. But, the good news, is the judge will not make that last forever. Maybe you can document what a user, creep he is about the money and the judge will give him nearly nothing.
Be free!
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If mapper stays longer she might end up paying spousal support to him. They've been only married 6 years.
But if they stay longer then yes she'll be paying.
My husband pays a ton to his ex who simply never wanted to work longer than few months a year and more than part time minimum wages. Mapper says she makes 60k. My husband makes just a bit over it and pays tons of alimony, we have 6 more years to pay. Since mappers husband only works a bit and mahes nothing, she will be paying him for like maybe 10 years after divorce. That's if he asks for it of course and if they stay married over 10 years.
Tish it doesn't work this way. When you show judge that you supported your spouse all these years then when judge is going to decide that you need to continue because that's what your spouse is accustomed to!
In our case husbands ex almost never worked but does have college degree, she demanded alimony until retirement age but judge said well you do need 10 years to get on your feet then alimony stops. By the way she still only works 15 hours a week minimum wages and lives in subsidized housing. No one makes her work full time.
Mapper would also need to give him half of the house and half of her savings etc unless of course they get divorced sooner. I'd be so terrified of paying spousal support that I'd run and run quick. My husband pays THIRD of his salary in spousal support (after tax). I am not kidding.