IMHO virginity is not just a penis in a vagina. Omg there's soooo much more to sex to be explored!
In the past 2 yrs I've learned that my body can orgasm 6 different ways. I've never experienced this before & im 46 yo. And this is just one small area I've learned about. I was a "virgin" in exploring energy play, different "taboo" areas of my own body & of my partners body. So I guess I was a virgin, which to me means I just haven't tried it yet.
Idk, but the best part is finding someone who wants to explore all this with you & follow you down the rabbit hole.
There's so much more! Don't get upset over a word.