Wow this is going to be a subject with lots of replies. i agree it is sad that the mods or admin feel they need to sit in on more chats. I know some members have felt uncomfortable with mods. WHY! If you are not behaving inappropriately the conversation should be no different. I have been in the chat and seen members jump to conclusions. All of a sudden bam. Without complete knowledge of the situation other members come down on one member and are relentless! First of all read the chat, if you dont know what is going on. If you do not know what a conversation is about, ask, or wait until you find out before making comments. Especially rude ones. Many people in the rooms are very sensitive. PC is certainly not the place to add to anyones ill feelings. I have also seen very childish behavior, members goading each other, or picking on another member, for their own sick enjoyment. I am glad to say most of my experiences here have been helpful and or lifted my spirits. That is what I come here for. I also come because it helps me tohelp others. We are not always going to agree with others and that is okay. But lets debate issues if the conversation warrants. But everyone is entitied to their opinion. But there is a right and a wrong way to voice that opinion and attack mode is not the right one