Lulu:

I can't help but notice that a mere five days before you first brought up this topic over on the relationships board, you'd made a post about an impending breakup with your boyfriend of eighteen months over his cannabis use. Unless there was some infidelity there (or it was an open relationship), I cannot fathom how you could so soon be desperate to be with someone else, aside from perhaps rebound, which isn't generally considered to be healthy behavior.

Apologies for being so callous, but it's part of my DX. Besides which, you're a therapist - you should know this stuff, right?