I, personally, wouldn't be bothered by the security guard's comment. And yes, I've had a t who breached confidentiality. She was seeing another client who had an eating disorder and self harmed and she suggested we get together. She told me about this client and her name and I'm sure she told the girl my name. She the t held an outdoor challenge course thingy and both of us were there, and it was awkward. Besides the total breach, I think it's odd a t would want 2 people with the same unhealthy issues to get together. Weird.

My current t, I'm not sure who else she sees. I've recommended her to friends, so who knows. In past therapies, I've known others who saw the t and was never bothered by it. I had a friend seeing the same t, and we discussed all of t's little quirks. And I've been inpatient about 10 times for my eating disorder, so in those circumstances you know who is seeing which t and who is seeing the same t as you.