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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
This sounds like a case of it's better to be with someone than be alone ... although it comes at a high price for you.
For what reasons do you stay?
Do you think you could do some research into therapists that he could see, and let him know when you're booking an appointment for him? He'll have to keep his commitment to the appointments otherwise he's not being serious about anything.
Also, worthwhile contacting your internet service provider. My provider lets me set up a control level (it's actually parental controls) but if you set it to medium / low it should be able to block porn. Alternatively I'm also able to block websites with my provider.
Alternatively my internet service provider also offers free porn filtering.
I'd get in touch with yours and see what they can do for you.
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If he can't get porn at home, he'll most likely go elsewhere to get it, leaving the OP and their kids all alone most of the time. He'll also most likely go and act out what he's doing via text and online with the women he meets on his dating profile.
So, blocking porn at home isn't a good idea for this situation. No, if she wants a man that respects her, and isn't a regular porn watcher, then she either needs to go to couples counseling with him or just flat out separate from him and work on the divorce papers.
I'm strongly suggesting divorce if he refuses to change or work on his problems.