I always feel like I get to upset and I don't know what to do with the anger. if I talk about it with my boyfriend he makes me feel like I'm in the wrong for feeling that way at times and I don't want to feel that way. For example he told me he didn't want to come over bc he would rather hang out with his friends and I got upset because we haven't seen each other in a week and I thought he wanted to come over. I got upset and he said I was acting immature about it because I was crying and I told him he hurt my feelings. I just don't know if I should handle it like that or how to handle it to make him understand he hurt me without him getting defensive.