You're playing with fire ... you yourself said you're in a good relationship with your husband.

So rather don't put yourself in a tempting position.

Yes, on the surface this guy looks like everything you've ever wanted.

But so was your husband at one stage. Yeah, we all have our flaws and marriages have ups and downs but any relationship requires work.

I'd suggest instead of investing your energy into this potential home wrecker, devote that energy to your husband and seek ways to spice up your marriage.