Thanks....but this is probably what will happen for a while. He'll go out drinking all night long starting Saturday night, come home Sunday morning piss arse drunk, and throw up all over himself in the bathroom making a huge arse mess, then sleep all Sunday away. He has Sunday and Mondays off so it's bound to be a common reoccurrence.

I've just decided that if he's going to make a mess of the bathroom on a weekly basis, he's now solely responsible for cleaning it up from now on.

I've also realized I can't handle this anymore. He's triggering me big time. My hands are shaking, I'm so upset. There's even been flashes of SI going through my head, though I'm trying my hardest not to act on them.