It will never be your fault if he kills himself. That is his choice and his choice alone.
It will never be your fault.
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but I can't leave the other one in case he'll do anything
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Yes you can.
What he is doing to you is
emotional blackmail: In a nutshell, emotional blackmail is a psychological-emotional ransom note that says, “if you don’t do what I want then I will make you hurt”.
Emotional Blackmail ? Out of the FOG
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Anyway he tried to kill himself and had to go into hospital eventually but I had to take care of for nearly a month before that, it really go to me and I couldn't sleep, I stayed with him 24/7 didn't sleep in fear he'd do something while I did, I didn't go to my lectures and have to repeat exams and possible the year because of it.
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You did not
have to do any of that. You
chose to do it. Your good heart guided you in that choice, but your head did not have to go along with it.
You are under no obligation to ruin your life or your studies because of him.
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I just don't know what to do, I feel trapped
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You feel trapped because of the guy's emotional blackmail. You can free yourself by allowing the guy the respect and the responsibility to make his own decisions. If he is imminently suicidal by all means call 911: but do not tie your entire life to his threats.