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Originally Posted by harmfulleh
It should be not considered self harm if I would have only liked the sexual side of it, but it makes me act somewhat submissive/passive during all the other activities.. what I think is that this is more like a masochist feeling than a more acceptable bisexual feeling.. I've always only fell in love with girls, never guys.. anyway the new psychologist I'm seeing since 1 month ago already knows about that 'nofap' thing but in 2 days I will talk about this, I just can't hold it in anymore
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Perhaps being somewhat submissive/passive is part of your personality--I think many people, male and female, can be like that. But it might be harder to accept when you are male due to cultural stereotypes. Maybe that was why you were bullied? I am sorry that happened to you. That was not your fault. Please don't blame yourself. And it seems like some girls really like getting there way. My marriage is not like this, I feel like I always give my H what he wants but sometimes females are more assertive and dominant. You may meet a girl some day that is a good match for your personality. So I am glad you are going to talk to the psychologist about this. And I hope your depression and dysmorphia gets better. There are other forums dealing with those issues. You aren't alone and you may want to read some of the posts....
