I can't even tell you how upset this makes me. I want to shout obscenities and do bad things to him. I wish I could turn back time and get you away from him. You are now the age where you can do it yourself. If the money for school comes with strings attached, which it probably does, then just be very careful. You can put up boundaries but still take his money but it is hard - go as low contact as possible until you can go no contact. Been there.