Hi kconnley, Well, first off...it sounds to me like you might benefit from being honest with yourself. I'm sure you are worried about your husband, but really, you are (it seems to me) worried about yourself and your marriage.

That is totally understandable.

I'm not sure the answer you're seeking is something we on PC can give you. I mean, we can speculate. But really, you need to discuss the situation with your husband. Get his input. Have you mentioned your feelings and concerns to him?