So you haven't even taken this woman on a single date, but you already envision her living with you in a "non-traditional household."

Here's another angle to consider. Dating the married father of two children attending school where she teaches might jeopardize her job.

And here's another angle. A divorced man who has to pay child support on two kids is not exactly a great catch, financially speaking, unless he makes a really large amount of money. If this woman is smart enough to be a teacher, she's smart enough to be aware of considerations like that.

You have to have a realistic conception of your "market value" in the dating marketplace, if you want to know what, realistically, has the potential to happen.

Here's another thing. You won't just lose being around your girls full-time. If you end a marriage that your wife doesn't want ended (especially if it's so you can be with another woman,) you can be sure your wife will raise those girls to regard you as a heel. Your not very exciting life might end up rather lonely.