Bill, I've suggested it. He's afraid he'll/we'll be judged since we're not married (or at the very least, engaged). We do live in a red state after all. Not to mention he was raised Catholic; even though he's not so strict now, he was raised with those beliefs. I could go by myself I guess, but since they're an hour away, it would be kind of uncomfortable to go by myself. Not to mention how much more effective it would be if we went together.