Hello Julio22: I'm sorry I cannot really address your concerns except to say that what happened before the two of you got together is history... not anything that is relevant to the relationship the two of you have now. So my recommendation is to simply let it go. But if you cannot, then see if you can find a counselor or mental health therapist with whom you can explore, over time, how you feel about what your lady did before the two of you were together. The important thing here, from my perspective, is not to allow this to roll around in your thoughts over-&-over. Continuing to ruminate over it is just going to make the whole situation seem worse.

I see this is your first post here on PC. So... to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! May the time you spend here be of benefit.