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Originally Posted by catmom1302
I'm glad I'm not the only one. I really didn't think I was though. One of his closest friends is a woman and she's been with his best friend for a very long time. High school sweethearts and all. These two are the ones that lived with him. I know for a fact that they've known him longer and I would prefer he talk to her about it because she knows him really well and she also at least knows me and would be able to give good counsel.
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I hear you about your preference with someone that he has not been romantically involved with to talk with.
At the same time, once involved for even as long as you have been, the need for feedback needn't be as much. Me, personally, after being with someone for several years, if it can't be handled directly with me it doesn't belong elsewhere.