It's okay to be a flawed human being. That's what all human beings are - flawed. You tell yourself - "I've got as much right to be flawed as the rest of humanity." That's how you take the pressure of yourself.

If you were perfect, your boyfriend wouldn't love you more. He would be afraid to go near you. He likes knowing that you need him - partly because you do have problems. That's what love is all about.