Curly, you said, "My ex is totally against illegal drugs. But I guess I should mention that he would take someone elses perscription for pain killers and wakes up to a beer! Sounds pretty stupid for me to want back in that relationship."
I don't want to sound like a wet blanket here, but you do know that two "users" do not a happy couple make. It actually sounds like you need to focus on your own recovery and dismiss thoughs of reuniting with this man.
Patty