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Originally Posted by Are you suffering?
I have to agree with Christina, there's no trust in the relationship and that's a sign of a troubled relationship. If I was in your husbands shoes I'd be doing the same thing just because I know you're snooping, just on principle alone. No one likes to be treated like a child or a cheating husband for no good reason. Put all the effort and time you're putting into pondering his motives and snooping on him into the relationship and maybe it might help the relationship a little.
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He has no idea I'm snooping because I have never let on that I know he's lying to me. I just go "Oh that's nice of them to tell you to just go home and come in tomorrow even though you haven't been to work for a week" or "That's nice that you went to work today" even though I know he just left the house and had breakfast somewhere only to come home after I left for work acting like he was at work all day. If he doesn't know I'm snooping, then why bother lying??