I understand what you're saying. That's why it bothers me, he should have just told me. Especially after I have tried multiple times to figure out what's wrong and he just tells me nothing and then goes to her. Like I said in my original post, I continued to ask him even after he spoke with her and still nothing. He did apologize to me the other day (after rushing off the phone to call her real fast). I really would just prefer that if he needed to seek advice outside of our relationship then he should have called someone else.